Finding Your Healing Space

Healing Pup

Healing Pup

I’ve been reading and working on “This Thing Called Grief – New Understandings of Loss” by Thomas M. Ellis, the book and the center he directs in St. Paul was recommended by my friend Leslye.  As I let go of the daily work I was doing to close out my sister’s affairs I begin to rest, reflect and rebuild my life after loss.  Being kind to myself and creating beauty around me meant doing some much needed gardening, adding plants, pulling weeds, replacing grass and admiring my gigantic hostas makes me smile.  I won’t mislead you I’m not a real gardener but every little bit has been an improvement and I have found a profound sense of joy and peace as I stoop, bend and get my hands dirty bringing color and beauty to my yard.

In March we added a new member to our family and this little guy has provided a lot of love and comfort for us during the past several weeks.  “Buttons” is a rescue poodle that I aquired from Picket Fence Poodles in Elk River, he had a history of being abandoned but we found he was a perfect fit for us and our family is now complete.

So my friends I share a couple of things that can add joy and peace during your healing journey, taking a step at a time I listen to music, admire art, read poetry and write in my journal and of course being with family and friends will help you mend.

Blessings,

Mary

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June 18, 2009 · Mary · No Comments
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